One of her
points stated that her fans should not focus on buying the latest phones or
gadgets when they do not have investments. In her words: “As the New Year
begins, please be wise and strategic. Nothing is going to change because it’s a
new year. Forget about the whole “New Year new me” mantra, if you don’t change
your ways, you’ll still get the same result.
Here are
some nuggets to help you this year. Stop comparing yourself with people and
focus on your journey. It’s easy to stay in your corner and feel that the grass
is greener at the other side, but the grass is greener where you water it.
Focus on your journey, we all have our time. Don’t let people’s success
pressurize you into looking for an easy way out.
Stop buying
the latest phones, bags and material things when you lack investments. Many
young people are caught up in material frivolities that they don’t even realize
what matters. iPhone 11 is good, but how the heck do you not have any
investment no matter how little bit you’re killing your self over buying an
iPhone 11? Don’t try to look rich! Be rich and how do you get rich? By
investing wisely!
Have friends
with benefit! Yes! Evaluate your friendships and kick out people you’re not
also benefiting anything from. I’m not saying you should be a leech, but make
friendships with the intentions to grow. Friends that only call you to drink
and party? But never talk about how to grow mentally, and get better? Cut them
off! You don’t need 1000 friends. One real friend is better than 20 casual
friends. Don’t start any relationship with “Let’s see as it goes…” Define any
relationship and know what you’re getting into, you can’t waste your time
trying to see how it goes. It’s either they want you or not. Finally, put God
in everything you do. Remember that everyone won’t like you, everyone won’t
help you, everyone won value you, but focus and trust God. Cheers to a better
2020.”